How this works.

So you want to contact me for an appointment, but you’re not sure what happens next or what’s expected. After you contact me via my email or my contact page on my website (which goes to my email) for the first time, I’ll respond typically within a week (I’ve been slow with replies lately). I do not meet the same day you send an inquiry to me, even if I happen to see your message that day. We’ll set up a date and time for a public meeting and a play session. I request that we meet in a public place such as a coffee shop for about 15 minutes so we can talk more freely. This public meeting is free (requires a deposit to hold the date) and is to insure safety and a good session! The public meeting can be scheduled separately or can be followed immediately by the session (assuming all is well).

You’ve sent a deposit and we have a public meeting planned. Arrive promptly at our public meeting place, or at least communicate any delays! If we are going to play that day, you will have a rapid covid test with you, and you’ve made sure that it’s not expired, so that you can take it in front of me. Depending on what we planned for, we’ll either part ways after a short chat to play another day, or we will go together to my studio for our play session. The roughly 15 minute development time of the covid test is not considered part of your “session time”, though I will often go through limits, interests, and safe words again during that time.

I reserve about 10 minutes at the end appointment for after care, cleaning oneself up, and/or having a small snack.

I have a 1-hour minimum for sessions for first time BDSM, ABDL only, and ABDL plus BDSM appointments, though it can be longer, up to 4 hours, if you so desire. I do not schedule longer than 4 hours or overnights for new people.

My studio is in Uptown Minneapolis. I typically charge a fee for outcalls, and extra if it’s well outside of the metro area.

I require proof of receiving vaccination against Covid-19. I require a rapid test, provided by you, to be taken at my studio on the day of a session. Even so, please tell me if you have any symptoms such as new congestion, fever, sore throat, vomiting, or diarrhea the day before a session. My immune system is compromised and I take your and my health very seriously.

For any session, I will need some information from you, such as food or latex allergies, if you have a pacemaker, if you’re diabetic, and/or if you take any kind of erectile dysfunction medication like viagra or cialis. 

Rates for Play Appointments:

New rates for 2026:

First hour: $400. Per hour after that: $310. Half an hour (after the first hour): $170. An $80 deposit is required for every session. A half hour disciplinary session is $250 and still requires a deposit and a covid test just like other sessions.

Potential upcharges: +$100 my scat. +$50 your scat (including messy diapers). +$200 for “forced” bi, cuckold, and/or duo Mommy Daddy session with Alex Knight. + rates of any other people I work with for other duos. Outcall fees, depending on distance.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you have your own dungeon/playspace? Yes, I have my own discreet studios for play appointments in Uptown Minneapolis.

How accessible is your playspace? There is metered and street parking within the two block radius of my studio. It can take some time to find a spot, so plan ahead for that. There are no stairs to my building, and stairs or an elevator to my studio. Please ask any other accessibility questions in your contact email.

Do I really still have to show proof of vaccination and take a covid test? Yes, I take my health very seriously and am vulnerable to extremely bad covid infections. I had been requiring Lucira tests, but they’re no longer available. You must take a rapid covid test, test provided by you, at my studio on the day of our session. In the few days before a session, please tell me if you have any symptoms such as new congestion, fever, sore throat, vomiting, or diarrhea. My immune system is compromised and I take your and my health very seriously.

Do I have to take the covid test in front of you? Why? Unless we’ve negotiated something else (like a molecular test or prior PCR testing at home), then yes. This is to avoid people forgetting, faking, or doing a bad job of reading the instructions. For best accuracy with a rapid covid test, you should always SWAB YOUR THROAT and then swab your nose, but otherwise follow the directions as written.

What happens if my covid test is positive? If your covid test is positive at my studio, you will have to leave. Your deposit will be forfeit, and you’ll have to send another deposit to schedule a future appointment. If you test positive a day or two before our appointment, we may be able to reschedule with only a partial deposit, as a sign of my appreciation for you taking initiative on your health and respecting my time. You can help mitigate the possibility of catching covid by wearing a high quality respirator style mask in indoor spaces or even crowded outdoor spaces, asking your friends and family to test before getting together, getting your yearly booster shot (get your flu booster too!), and filtering and cleaning the air. I give more details here.

What happens if I’m late? The amount you are late is time that is taken from your play appointment. For example, if you’re 20 minutes late to a 1 hour appointment, your play session will only be about 30 minutes of playing plus 10 minutes of aftercare. You will still need to pay the full fee if you choose to keep your session, regardless of how much your lateness cuts into our time together. You can always choose to cancel/reschedule, but you will forfeit your deposit. A new deposit will need to be sent for any future appointments.

How do I get to know you better? The best way is to set up an appointment with me. After we discuss the introductory interests via my contact form/email, you’ll send a deposit, and then we can meet in person in a public place to chat. This is a prerequisite for an appointment if I’ve never met you before. I also offer texting, phone call, and video call options, which you can set up with my contact form or whenever I’m online on Niteflirt. If an appointment isn’t an option for you, feel free to follow me on instagram, bluesky, fetlife, and my subscription sites to learn more about me.

How can I serve you? Again, if I don’t know you, your best bet is going to be setting up an appointment. The next best way is to buy my content online and send tips and tributes. Someday I may seek another service sub for certain tasks, such as grocery shopping, housecleaning, yard work, and the like, but it will be someone with whom I’ve developed trust and rapport over time and in-person appointments.

Can I take you shopping? Yes! Shopping dates are another form of appointment. They still require contact through my contact form, some brief email discussion, and a deposit. Depending on where we shop, expect to budget money for food for me, tribute for my time, and at least $100+ for shopping.

Do you do doubles? Yes, I partner with other providers for appointments. There are a few other Dommes, like Miss Bat and Goddess Flora, as well as some other local lovelies like Josie Jones or Rococo Royalle for a different kind of experience. And I work with Alex Knight if you want to be cuckolded or “encouraged” to explore your orientation in real time.

Do you make custom videos? Yes! You can reach out via my contact form to inquire. I do all Giantess, Giant Woman, shrinking and tiny man, and vore content with TinyGuy.

I’m in college/between jobs/only want x or y or z/broke, can you lower your rate? No.